lostlifehard asked:
I have been through the big “D” for a year and just recently started dating. The good thing is it is with someone i have liked for awhile and he waited until i was sure i was ready to move forward. My Question is what is a good First Date? It’s been so long i don’t even know where to begin! Thank you
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I have been through the big “D” for a year and just recently started dating. The good thing is it is with someone i have liked for awhile and he waited until i was sure i was ready to move forward. My Question is what is a good First Date? It’s been so long i don’t even know where to begin! Thank you
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January 26th, 2009 - 7:26 am
dinner and a movie-you get to pause from talking when you eat, and after you watch the movie, you have more to talk about. It helps take the pressure off of the slowww moments in conversation.
January 27th, 2009 - 10:14 pm
A movie and a dinner afterward is the classic date. Go see a movie that you both are interested in, then go to a nice dinner (not McDonalds!) where you’d discuss about your opinons on the movies, which will move onto a better conversation. Just smile, be yourself, share a sense of humar and get to know each other better.
January 29th, 2009 - 7:24 pm
A good start doesn’t rush you into anything. Take it slow, and buld on your relationship thru talkn and spendn time together. see it has no formula its all about being yourself!
January 31st, 2009 - 3:22 pm
A good first date is one that neither of you expected, but became the best time. It starts with good company. Next, is an activity that both of you enjoy (biking, diving, football, paintball, dancing, etc.), just don’t get too competitive. Spectating on some of these is preferable to participating. The point is make connections in the arenas you already have in common. The final element is the conclusion. Both of you have to mutually decide how the date should end, just so that neither of you have any misgivings.
February 2nd, 2009 - 10:42 am
I always tend to think that good first dates are one where you have enough room to talk to one another (i.e. not a movie) but there’s not too much pressure on the coupling or the conversation (like there can be when going to dinner).
My suggestion might be to do something kind of silly and fun, but active, so there’s a distraction when you need it. Something like mini-golf, bowling, pool, or similar might do the trick. Of you could go someplace like Dave and Buster’s (if there’s one near you) where there are, again, the distractions, but they have a bar and restaurant if you want a drink or want to eat (plus, who doesn’t love video games…makes you feel like a kid again!).
Also, I want to say that divorce is awful, and it’s great that you are strong enough to know when you are and aren’t ready to date again. Not everyone can do that.
Best of luck!