11 Responses to “How do I allow myself to feel sexy these days?”

1. pro_dancer1234
   February 1st, 2009 - 3:17 am

   what you feel is what you are and what you are is beautiful!

2. briskmaster
   February 1st, 2009 - 9:23 am

   Exercise, you will lose weight and you will also feel better about yourself.

3. Louise O
   February 1st, 2009 - 10:13 am

   Treat yourself to a makeover it doenst have to be a expensive one maybe buy yourself a new outfit or get your hair done !! This will make you feel refreshed and better about yourself which will in turn gve you the confidence to feel sexy again!!

4. asian_paladin
   February 4th, 2009 - 4:20 pm

   beauty is in the eye of the beholder

5. aint_no_sunshine
   February 4th, 2009 - 11:40 pm

   I usually get my hair cut and styled in the salon, which makes me feel quite sexy Also, buy some new feminine clothes and wear high heels! I always feel sexier when I’m wearing my heels Lastly, wear makeup..and don’t be afraid to experiment!

6. xrayness
   February 8th, 2009 - 10:40 am

   Try mini skirts and high heels…the guys will go crazy. Works all the time.

   Also, this is a cool article on weight loss…good luck.

7. Curious J.
   February 11th, 2009 - 7:53 pm

   I’m not going to tell you to be happy in the skin your in because then i wouldn’t be following my own advise.
   I too was overweight after i had my second child and there was no way i could feel sexy in my skin, especially when buying new clothes!
   If you feel that bad then i suggest eating better and getting exercise regularly. Making it a habit will help you lose weight and feel better about yourself.
   I know from experience! I might sound shallow but it’s true, being at a healthy weight will make you feel better and you wont be at risk for health problems.

8. Chica-Bonitax
   February 12th, 2009 - 1:41 am

   First you have to believe that you’re sexy. Write down all the good things about yourself… Maybe you have nice lips, nice hair, pretty eyes etc… Excersize and eat healthy, get motivated and you will feel awesome!! Good luck hun xo

9. thomasgower@ymail.com
   February 13th, 2009 - 8:43 am

   It all starts in your mind. More specifically it starts with your own body image. If you are not comfortable or happy about your body, then it is almost impossible to think & feel sexy. You mention that you are 30 lbs overweight. Make sure that you are not comparing yourself to what we see in movies, on TV or in magazines. You have 2 choices:

   1) accept yourself as you are, believe that you have a nice body and move beyond the weight “issue.” Make sure to focus on the parts of you that are pretty or sexy.

   2) Work to lose weight. You can get some encouragement when you lose a couple of pounds, but this can be challenging when you go a week without losing any weight. If you decide to go this route, you have a ton of options. You can simply watch what you eat and try to increase exercise by walking more or doing simple exercises or you can change your eating habits and exercise regularly. If you go with the more involved workout, I suggest Body For Life by Bill Phillips. The program is pretty simple, plus, you get one day a week to eat anything you want.

   When you are comfortable with you, then you can start working to change your attitude. There are many attractive and sexy “plus size” models. A large part of what makes them sexy is being comfortable with who they are and having that sexy attitude. This may take some time and you may have to “fake it until you make it.” But you will get there.

   For more sexy tips, check out my book “How To Get Your Sexy Back: I Want To Be A Diva Mom!” While the book focuses on mothers, most of the information included can be applied to all women.

10. hama73hama
    February 14th, 2009 - 7:02 am

    Dress yourself in satin blouses, short skirts, heels and stockings. Try wearing these clothes in the bath or shower… let the water run over you and soak into the material of the clothes… feel how they cling to your body and sensuously touch your skin… that should make you feel really sexy.

11. dave
    February 15th, 2009 - 4:58 pm

    There’s a good article at eHow about looking/feeling/being sexy:

    How to Be Sexy

    There’s a bit about dressing, walking, looking good, but it’s really 90% about attitude.

    Take a look. Hope it’s just what you’re after.

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