24 Responses to “How do I make myself feel sexy again at 44. I was in playboy in 1980 and thought I could get by with my looks”

1. Lisa
   January 4th, 2009 - 7:03 pm

   makeup, new clothes and a few drinks.

2. Girly Q
   January 7th, 2009 - 8:13 am

   Well it sounds like you should have enough money to be able to afford sugery if that is what you would like to do

3. josephine
   January 9th, 2009 - 12:40 pm

   Treat yourself to a spa vacation….I am sure you are still beautiful

4. ee
   January 12th, 2009 - 5:49 pm

   Get a makeover. A new hair color and a different hairstyle might help.

5. silly 123
   January 14th, 2009 - 1:10 am

   Get a makeover with your friends!!

6. KillaRoach
   January 14th, 2009 - 12:42 pm

   Uhmm face lifts and lose weight.

7. logsdodl
   January 15th, 2009 - 11:20 pm

   Being sexy is more than a look. It is how you carry yourself. Big women can look sexy but they carry themselves into being sexy otherwise who would look at them. So put on that fine looking dress, powder your nose, and carry yourself in all the sexyness you got. When guys start checking you out then you know you are still hot as ever. If you run around in sweats and try to conceal yourself then no one will notice and you feel like a hermit crab.

8. Lollipop
   January 17th, 2009 - 4:27 am

   Get a new hair style, new color…work out if you don’t already. Put more effort into yourself! Wear something out of the ordinary for you.

9. 47
   January 20th, 2009 - 2:49 am

   get a younger man.

   (BELIEVE ME)

10. John L
    January 22nd, 2009 - 10:54 pm

    Start flirting around. If your married surprisse your spouse with new lingerie. If not keep a smile on your face since that is the sexiest part of a woman (besides the glint in her eye), do not be afraid to date a lot.

11. TargetMan
    January 24th, 2009 - 1:19 pm

    move out of LA theres so much fake plastic in that town…. any where else in the country I am sure you are beautiful

12. kildarewolf
    January 26th, 2009 - 2:10 pm

    What month and what was your playmate name?

13. CATWOMAN
    January 28th, 2009 - 2:19 am

    new chonies and bras, a new scent of body spray, a photoshoot with a photog for fun not business. smart is sexy. a new hairstyle or color. ask your husband to make you feel sexy.

14. LATINA G
    January 29th, 2009 - 10:53 am

    you can start with going to a spa then getting your hair done, then your nails and toes. go out to eat or something with a friend or two have fun enjoy life.

15. kay-dee-burr
    January 31st, 2009 - 8:02 am

    Well, the best thing you can do to be sexy is to be confident. I know that confidence is the one thing that makes all guys melt. So do what you can to make yourself feel confident, ie buy “FMPs” (fuck me pumps) and strut your stuff. Just beam out confidence then others will see you as sexy and you will feel sexy too!

16. cato___
    January 31st, 2009 - 5:09 pm

    You were in playboy at 16?

    …. you could send us your pictures now and have us ooh and ah….

17. Morgan Lefaye
    February 3rd, 2009 - 6:30 am

    start looking within yourself ,change the way you feel about “sexy”
    and trust me,
    everything else will follow.

18. Matt D
    February 5th, 2009 - 7:51 am

    well I bet you are still sexy…I probably saw your photo shoot back then… as far as feeling sexy again, let me give you a cyber “wink” =)

19. Janell T
    February 6th, 2009 - 7:48 pm

    Go back and see Hef…he’ll help you.

20. kmichele83
    February 9th, 2009 - 3:21 am

    exercise!!
    even if you dont need to lose weight, or already do exercise… try taking a class in something different that has some kind of exciting sensual aspect. like bellydancing, zumba, even pilates or something

21. McGoo
    February 9th, 2009 - 5:27 pm

    We are close in age. I’m sure if we were to spend some time together, you wouldn’t have any doubt in your mind.
    Should you ever get to West Michigan, look me up and I’ll help you feel sexy again!

22. jill
    February 13th, 2009 - 2:42 am

    why did almost everyone get thumbs down?
    everything everyone has said is totally respectable
    if you want to ‘look sexy again’ those answers are good ones

23. ?LOVE?
    February 14th, 2009 - 4:21 am

    BOTOX baby. get in shape
    Watch your calories, go out and have some fun
    with your “Girlfriends” wear something sexy

24. glyde_iv
    February 15th, 2009 - 6:43 am

    my advice is to get a much older man.

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