7 Responses to “How do you appear sexy and classy to others? I am a young women without a lot of money and want to learn tips.”

1. needlepoint_lace
   January 25th, 2009 - 11:52 pm

   Yes
   Don’t dress like a five dollar hooker.
   Stay away from cheap stores and shop at department stores like Macy’s and stores like Express.
   It’s on the very low end of couture but it’s much better than Wet Seal and Forever 21.
   Have a sales associate help you with that’s popular, pick out a ton of clothes, and go try them on.
   You won’t know what looks good and what doesn’t until you try it on and see how it fits.
   Low cut shirts are fine, as long as it doesn’t show half of your chest. Shirts like that require a cami or tank top.
   Buy skirts that hit or almost hit the knee.
   Avoid plaid and prints - unless it’s Chanel plaid.

2. Heinz M
   January 28th, 2009 - 11:17 am

   It’s more about how you move, how healthy you look (clear skin and good figure) and how confident you appear. ~
   A good smile.

3. Sone
   January 29th, 2009 - 2:47 am

   Brand names do not make you look good. Should I say it again? It is shallow to think that only rich people can look good.(A Gucci lable does not make you look better) I do not think that sexy and classy goes together. Sexy often appears slutty! I’d go for the preppy look if you want classy! Try dept stores, like someone else said because they are cheap, everyone shops there anyway. If you are a teenager it might be good to stay away from “teen” areas sometimes. Try small amounts of jewlery do not mix silver and gold together! The bling look is out and you will not look good if you pile on the jewlery, less is more.
   Try to buy clothes that do not flaunt the brand name, you will either look cheap or trying to impress someone too much if you do.
   The best thing you can do that is absoultely free is to SMILE.

4. Titanic
   January 29th, 2009 - 11:06 am

   There is a few lessions that you must learn.

   First off guys will want you for the outside if you create yourself more sexyer

   It’s what’s within that matters.

   So the last step is to be yourself and you will have a higher chance to bring in a guy who wants you for you and not for your outside.

5. Baba Yaga
   January 31st, 2009 - 8:22 pm

   Confidence is sexy. Always be true to who you are. Kindness and compassion are classy. It has NOTHING to do with what you wear. And don’t give a shit what the post-rugrats say about you. Hang on to your power; never give it away. Give no one the ability to denigrate you. It takes practice,but you’ll do fine.

6. icesk8ter32000
   February 4th, 2009 - 3:30 am

   To start off, you need body posture. Always stand up straight and walk confidently with long strides. You don’t want to appear timid and tiptoe around everything. Along with walking the walk, you have to dress confidently. Find clothing that fits your body type, and always dress appropiately for where you are going. However, make sure your clothing isn’t too “old fashioned” if you want to appear sexy. Show a little cleavage, make your clothing fun and in style but not skanky.

   Examples
   Sexy-
   Skanky-http://www.bestweekever.tv/bwe/images/2006/09/71895854.jpg
   (I know all of them are dresses, but it’s the same rule of thumb with tops as well. If you bend over and can see your bra, the top is too low. If thats the case, where something to cover it up or something under it. However, depending on the occasion, you can show a little more skin.)

   To appear classy, always have some manners. For example, when you are out eating, don’t gobble down your food or burp. Certain clothing lines also give the impression of classiness. JCrew and Express typically sell womens clothing that is naturally classy. If you’re looking for something a bit more fun and flirty try forever 21 or H&M.

7. Expositor
   February 4th, 2009 - 8:21 am

   1) Do not slouch - walk with your shoulders back (not too far back, but just upright - it may feel awkward at first but you will soon get used to it) Not only does this imply confidence and make your look 100% more attractive immediately it is also good for your back when you get older. Best of all it costs nothing!

   2) Don’t dress like a 5 dollar hooker (as someone else has already said) - solid colour, plain clothers over anything with frills or diamentes. Wear a skirt, but not one that is too low. Wear a dress but make sure it is well fitted for your body shape - maybe take a friend who looks smartly dressed to the store with you.

   3) Smile and look at people in the eyes - this will take practice too (if you don’t already do it0, but eventually become second nature. This will make you appear confident and approachable.

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