Furious asked:
I’ve been in an on and off relationship for 2 years now. We just ended it because he is not sexually satisfied and does not feel the passion. Is this just something that happens automatically, when everything else in the relationship is perfect? Can you go back and introduce a more enticing sex life and passion or is it just over?
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I’ve been in an on and off relationship for 2 years now. We just ended it because he is not sexually satisfied and does not feel the passion. Is this just something that happens automatically, when everything else in the relationship is perfect? Can you go back and introduce a more enticing sex life and passion or is it just over?
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December 29th, 2008 - 4:37 am
Really sounds Mental too me, Maybe you both require a therapist.
December 30th, 2008 - 1:10 pm
dear,sex is an expression of love, if u love someone, u will attract to him automaticlly,and when man love a woman he dream to have it with her……….( note: love is not just a sex…its a feeling that bring desire)
i think he didnt love u ….he was a player( if u r in a society where sexual relationship is normal before marriage)….or maybe he is a kind of men who dont do it before marriage………
if u want to bring exciting to relationship….u must know…every girl know how to attract her man…and keep him crazy for her….maybe changing in relationship….a new idea..new clothes….will make the couple attract to each other…the importent thing is that u shouldnt let the man feel the sex as a routine….but like a hobby…and a thing he always feel new with…………
its for ur marriage life not just for a boyfriend
January 2nd, 2009 - 1:43 am
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January 3rd, 2009 - 11:51 pm
The difference between a man and a woman is that a man just needs a place to have sex, a woman needs to feel it in her heart. If he leaves you and keeps coming back that to me means that wants to “play around” but what you keep offering him is better than what he is getting elsewhere. If is is not getting anything from some other girl then you need to consider not giving him any sex.
Also men stray because women either 1) stop putting out (when they used to do it every other night to every 3rd night), or 2) it gets boring. Try spicing it up. I don’t know if you are bi or have ever considered being with another woman, but most men find that a turn on. Try different things with him as well, do fantasy role playing (like dressing up like a naughty football player or cheerleader or whatever), or doing it in risky public places (like a park behind some bushes or breaking into a public pool or a golf course). Keep it spontaneous and fun and light hearted.
Sex should be fun as well as passionate, not shameful and boring. This question should have been geared to the guys more than the girls anyways.
January 7th, 2009 - 4:40 am
good question. I suggest you change place where you have sex with husband. I see good suggestions on a cougar dating site, SugarmommaCupid.com. maybe you check it and lots of people exchange idea with you.
January 9th, 2009 - 8:11 am
Well if he has ended it because of the sex then you should forget about him and try and find someone to love and care for you.
Otherwise try out some new positions
Or talk about sex
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January 10th, 2009 - 11:29 pm
if sex is all he care about then leave the sorry bastard…
January 14th, 2009 - 7:32 am
No this is not something that just happens automatically. To spice it up try role playing , costumes, and ask him what he wants give him 20 dollars and tell him to get the stuff by to night and you’ll try it out.
Good Luck
January 16th, 2009 - 10:08 pm
Not too shabby, a two year honeymoon and the party is over. How can you be a realist and say everything else is perfect. Lets just assume it is. You’ve got nothing to lose. Tell him, lets go on dates, put some romance back in. Try costumes or fancy outfits in the bedroom. Role play and have fun. You guys got bored. The elevator is either going up or its going down. It’s up to you guys what ride you want.
January 17th, 2009 - 2:37 pm
You have been in an ON and OFF relationship for two years??? What that says to me is that you never had a solid relationship in the first place.
It’s not the sex holding your relationship back…it’s the relationship holding the sex back. The fun you are lacking here is really some other fun-damental issue keeping your relatonship from forming into anything other than superficial.
If sex were the only problem, well, that’s something that just takes love, communication, and practice. If you love someone enough you can work through any issues.
This sounds more like he might have a problem, perhaps fear of intimacy, but without anymore info I can’t say. One thing I can say, even with this little info…the relationship is doomed. Sorry.