allie021877 asked:
I’m a single mom of 3 kids. My ex walked out on us. I don’t know when is the right time to start going out and dating new people. We have been separated for 3 1/2 months now. I waited to see if he would change his mind and come back. But from what it looks like he is happy the way he is.
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I’m a single mom of 3 kids. My ex walked out on us. I don’t know when is the right time to start going out and dating new people. We have been separated for 3 1/2 months now. I waited to see if he would change his mind and come back. But from what it looks like he is happy the way he is.
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January 10th, 2009 - 9:37 am
Start dating when you are ready. I suggest that you wait until the divorce is final. When you do start dating, don’t bring your dates around your kids.
January 13th, 2009 - 7:20 am
You still have 15 days more
January 16th, 2009 - 1:20 pm
There isn’t a set time… it’s whenever you feel comfortable dating again. Just don’t introduce your children to him until it’s serious..
January 17th, 2009 - 7:58 pm
Go see someone else if he has balls to walk out you dont need that find someone better
January 20th, 2009 - 2:11 am
welll whenever u feel ready and pfrepared to enter the dating world again
January 22nd, 2009 - 6:26 am
Personally I wouldn’t date for a year.
I’d give myself time to renew my relationship with my children.
I’d give myself time to figure out what the heck happened after 6 years….and how I can prevent it from happening again.
You’ve got baggage…..you need to deal with it.
January 24th, 2009 - 8:52 pm
It is going to be when you feel ready to get out there and date. Don’t do it as a way to get even, cuz that is not fair to your dates. but do it when you feel ready to get out there and give things another go.
I am really sorry that you were put in that situation. Good luck with things and i am sure you will find someone amazing… give it time!
January 28th, 2009 - 4:45 am
There is no right time. I got separated after 15 years of marriage, a mutual decision…and I started seeing someone about 2 months after the separation. If you aren’t ready, wait! Casual “dates” would be the way to start…coffee, breakfast. Good Luck!
January 29th, 2009 - 8:07 pm
the truth is only you can decide that. Only you will be able to tell when you are ready to move on and leave your ex in the past. It is healthy for you to do that. You will know when you have healed and let him go and when you are ready to let other people in your life and not afraid that they will do the same.
February 1st, 2009 - 12:02 am
if you weren’t married then you don’t have to worry about legal implications.
go with what feels right. i had such a bad marriage for so long that i was only single for a year. i desperately needed someone who would be nice to me. i found someone and he’s been nice to me for 4 yrs now
February 2nd, 2009 - 3:29 pm
when you are ready and comfortable with the idea of dating someone else.
good luck
February 3rd, 2009 - 6:39 am
Allie,
You can start dating when your ready too. There is no time limit.
February 5th, 2009 - 4:23 pm
First off honey, there is no man on earth that you should ever wait for, when he was the one that walked out the door.
Your time is now and last week and 3 months ago. You need to get out there and find yourself a good man.
February 8th, 2009 - 5:26 am
Don’t date until you have dealt with your own issues. Don’t inflict your pain and suffering on some poor, unsuspecting guy. Go to a divorce counseling group and make sure your kids get help also. Concentrate on your kids, your professional life, your emotional health. And make your life what you want it to be………for you. When all that is in order, you are ready to date.